Growing up, I fit a mold prescribed onto me. For instance, I often heard messages such as "Wear light and neutral colors so you don't look so dark." I was to dress and present myself in a way that limited attention to myself. I'm sure my mother had her reasons, perhaps in an attempt to keep me psychological and physically safe, and for those reasons, I extend my grace to her.
At the age of18, when I transitioned to college, hoops became an emblem of my identity. I could have the most racoon-looking eyes, and yet, I felt so beautiful and powerful with my hoops. Hoops were part of my daily outfit. I wasn't leaving my dorm/apartment, unless I had them on. They were my secret power.
To this day, I love rocking my hoops and in all spaces possible. I could be backpacking in nature and you'll find me in my hoops because who ever said we can't be sexy in the outdoors? In professional settings, I also deliberately choose to wear my hoops. Why? Because whoever convinced us that wearing hoops was not "professional" enough? My hoops state, "It's time to decolonize our perceptions of professionalism." Lastly, I proudly wear my hoops in any place I'm visiting because it's a reflection of how I choose to celebrate my Oaxaca- California identity. Yes, I am of Mixteco indigenous background, proud to have been born in Oaxaca, and a child migrant to Southern California, and by intentionally choosing to wear my hoops, I celebrate all aspects of my identity, choosing to live live authentically, boldly and unapologetically.