The first time I fell in love with hoops earrings was when I saw Jody Watley’s video for Lookin for a New Love in 87. I thought she was so strong and beautiful. I knew as a young girl that I wanted to embody her look when I grew up. It was then that I started wearing neon hoops, skinny hoops, large hoops basically any kind of hoop I could get my hands on. As a teenager I had to wait for my mom to buy me my first pair or real gold earrings when I graduated HS, that was my gift. I remember feeling like the shit once I had them. She was a single mom in between jobs and so I really appreciated it. I had to be careful with those large hoop earrings because they were hollow and would crush easily. Eventually one of the earrings got crushed and I’d crush the other to match. Plus I figured they were less likely to get stolen crushed up like that since that was also going on at the time. Ultimately those crushed hoops gave me leverage, even though I did not have that much money, I had the gold and that allowed me to trade them in to get the new gold jewelry that I wanted. I remember how pricey real hood hoops were so imagine my reaction when I came back from Cali where I lived for two years, back to NYC for Christmas break, winter of 1992 and my whole crew of girls had on huge gold earrings. They had all the different sizes and styles. I never felt more broke. I couldn’t understand how they were all able to afford them! When I asked how much they were they all went along with the story, telling me anywhere from $400 and up. That went on for a few days and then they finally told me about and took me to the spot on W 14th street where they got the knock offs earrings. It was knock off city for me from then on until this very day! I still have scars from my early days of hoops because I used to wear them clubbing and my ear holes constantly ripped while dancing because of how heavy they were. The tears were painful but it wasn’t ever enough to stop me from wearing them again. I’d just give my ears a few days to heal and it was back to business.